Friendship And Technology..

Date:14 may 2019

Technology has brought people close enough but somewhere somehow it has disconnected the way that connected heart….

Yes it’s happening!!!! I am the live example what I am feeling right now.

I am less spoken person in this big world. I have all soughts of account…fb, Instagram, what’s app, etc. When I was new to this media I thought this web of internet will gift me new friends. But that didn’t happened. I was the same…left with few countable friend in this real world.

Now as I moved to new place slowly I realised that those of my past friends are now fb friend with whom you talk very rarely…. you are there in their friend list to just like their photos. Recently I am planning to visit my childhood place….wished and planned to visit all my friends…with all enthusiasm and happiness I made up my mind. Our Culture says to inform when you go and meet people…..For the same I messaged in my group…and guess what??? Things happened exactly the opposite!!!!

Not even my school best friend responded….shocked me!!!!!!!!!!

What did I do?? Why did she not respond to my message??? Isn’t she interested to meet me?? Was I that bad??? What was the reason??????

Hell!!! Questions disturbing me and hitting back of my brain!!

Soon I realized it’s not me or her; it’s the technology that has parted our hearts….I still remember I and her , our school time when we used to walk together, study together and have fun….her mom used to be like my second mom….that was the time when there is was no technology to teach us friendship goal…..

Now the time has changed…. people have different way of living life…people respect those who are equal to them….now friendship is on social media status…. perhaps I am happy that God shown me the real relationship meaning.

I might not even have handful countable friends in real world , but those who are , they are gems. For whom I am always there. And I know they are just one phone call apart.

Real friendship is one with no definition. It’s just there , it’s a true feeling of heart.

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